We women are forever working to prove ourselves..We exert ourselves for employers, for husbands, for children, for parents, for almost everyone. Since the advent of the ‘working woman’ era, we have been rushing around to manage and balance our homes and work, while the other members sit around, watch and judge this tight rope balancing act. Then they have the gall to comment on performers knowing fully well that they in all their macho glory mind cannot match this in a million years. Yet we strive to please them and win accolades for having met their expectations which keep revising and rising? Why do we do that?